.cari pasal.

a situation:
y u no admit being at a place with that person at the same time? enough evidence. u blogged about it. that other person has DP of that place (same contrast). yet, u deny it. come on. this is not my story though. saja menyibuk. ;p


masalah. cari masalah dengan orang lain memang senang. yang paling berkesan adalah dengan menyalahkan orang lain. blaming it on others. sebab, bila kau sampai satu sudut/bucu yang mana sukar untuk kau gerak lagi, kau akan cari akal untuk lepas beban itu. ada dua alasan. satu, kau mahu kau kosong semula (nampak baik pada mata orang lain). atau kau memang mahu khianat dia (biar dia seksa). mana-mana pun akan buat kau TAK TENANG. sampai sudah ada unresolved issues. sudah-sudah lah tu.
aku sedar kau fighter. suka on the edge. i want to be on the safe side. sedar itu milik orang. tak akan SENTUH. tapi kau degil. tamak? mungkin. tak mengapa. mungkin senang dengan begitu. bahagia barangkali.
happiness bukan untuk sorang-sorang rasa. sorang-sorang happy, tak seronok kot. tapi, definition bagi setiap orang berbeza. again, hak masing-masing. jangan takut untuk gamble. perjudikanlah bahagia kau itu jika kau rasa it is worth the try. never try, never know right? gambling is fun. gambling? cuba view dari maksud lain dari judi-kasino-duit-4D. bukan. bukan itu. gambling yang kau rancang prosedurnya tapi outcome masih misteri. bukan kau rancang membabi buta. contoh banyak. mistakes orang lain pun ada. look and learn.


creeping in the dark. movie date tak habis lagi. 3-4 tahun kot cari 'perfume:story of a murderer'. tapi, tak pandai download. 
nasib baik ada orang tu suka download. ;)

.3 Reasons to Travel While You’re Young.

The other night, I had a conversation with a young woman who had a number of decisions ahead of her, one of which was whether she should go to grad school or travel the world.

I told her to travel. Hands down. No excuse. Just go.

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She sighed.

“Yeah, but…”

Never were more fatal words spoken.

Yeah, but… what about debt?Yeah, but… what about my job?Yeah, but… what about my boyfriend (or dog or car or whatever)?

“Yeah, but…” is pernicious. Because it makes it sound like we have the best of intentions when really we are just too scared to do what we should.

It allows us to be cowards, while sounding noble.

Most people I know who waited to travel the world never did. Conversely, plenty of people who waited for grad school or a steady job and traveled still did those things — eventually.

Be careful of the yeah-but. The yeah-but will kill your dreams.

I was so stirred by this conversation that I shared it with a group of about thirty young adults last night, many of which were asking these very questions.

The life you’ve always wanted

When you get older, life seems to just sort of happen to you. Your youth is a time of total empowerment.

You get to do what you want. As you mature and gain new responsibilities, you have to be very intentional about making sure you don’t lose sight of what’s important.

So if you still have a reasonable amount of control over your circumstances, you should do what really matters. Because life won’t always be just about you.

During early adulthood, your worldview is still being formed. It’s important to steward this time — to give yourself opportunities to grow. A good way to do that is to travel.

So, young person, travel.

Travel wide and far.
Travel boldly.
Travel with full abandon.

You will regret few risks you take, when it comes to this. I promise you.

There are three reasons to travel while you’re young:

1. Traveling teaches you to live an adventure

When you look back on your life, you will have moments of which you are proud and maybe a few you regret. It’s likely that the following won’t be on the latter list:

• Bicycled across the Golden Gate Bridge.
• Appeared on Italian TV.
• Hiked a Mayan ruin.
• Learned Spanish in three months.
• Toured Europe by train.

They’re not on mine (fun fact: I’ve done all of the above).

What, then, will be?

• Holding back.
• Being afraid.
• Making excuses.
• Not taking more risks.
• Waiting.

While you’re young, you should travel.

You should take the time to see the world and taste the fullness of life. It’s worth whatever investment or money or sacrifice of time required on your part.

It’s not about being a tourist. It’s about experiencing true risk and adventure so you don’t have to live in fear for the rest of your life.

2. Traveling helps you encounter compassion

In your youth, you will make choices that will define you. The disciplines you begin now will be with you for the rest of your life.

Traveling will change you like little else can. It will put you in places that will force you to care for issues that are bigger than you.

If you go to southeast Asia, you may encounter the slave trade. If eastern Europe, you may see the effects of genocide and religious persecution. If Haiti, you’ll witness the the ugly side Western paternalism.

Your heart will break.

You will begin to understand that the world is both a big and small place. You will have a new-found respect for the pain and suffering that over half of the world takes for granted on a daily basis. And you will feel more connected to your fellow human beings in a deep and lasting way.

You will learn to care.

3. Traveling allows you to get some culture

While you’re still young, you should get cultured. Get to know the world and the magnificent people that fill it.

There’s nothing quite like walking alongside the Coliseum or seeing Michelangelo’s David in person. I can describe the city of San Juan and its amazing beaches and historic sites to you, but you really have to see it for yourself to experience it. You can read all the books in the world about the Great Wall of China or The Louvre, but being there is a different story.

The world is a stunning place, full of outstanding works of art. See it.

Do this while you’re still young. Do not squander this time. You will never have it again.

You have a crucial opportunity to invest in the next season of your life now. Whatever you sow, you will eventually reap.

Please. For your sake, do this.

You won’t always be young. And life won’t always be just about you. So travel. Experience the world for all it’s worth. Become a person of culture, adventure, and compassion.

“What if I’m not young?”

Travel, anyway. It may not be easy to do, but find a way to get out of your comfort zone. It’s really never too late.

But if you haven’t gotten sucked into the routine of life yet, I implore you — travel. It will never be easier than it is right now for you to do that which really matters.

If you’re young, have you traveled yet? Have you seen what the world has to offer and how it can change you? What’s holding you back?

If you’re older, did you travel when you were young? What regrets do you have?

Join the discussion in the comments.

Reading material

If you’re ready to step off the beaten path, here are a few travel companions I recommend:

• The Narrative of Arthur Gordon Pym of Nantucket by Edgar Allan Poe
• Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
• Through Painted Deserts by Donald Miller
• The Alchemist by Paulo Coehlo
• Unconventional Guides by Chris Guillebeau

And if you’re looking to travel with a purpose, consider going on a mission trip. I highly recommend The World Race.

copy from here by Jeff Goins

oh, n thank you jack popo for sharing.

.random vids.

suka. jangan tanya kenapa. most of the time, it's the lyrics babe.

makan dalam.

boleh tak pinjam lappy yang ada 2000+ vids tu?

.vnip.

Insecure? During few years back, insecurity keeps haunting me. never once i feel secured. I don't like it. Not at all. Banyak lagi benda lain nak fikir. Kalau tak, dah dapat 4 flat agaknya. 


It distracted me. A lot. The silent moments. The wondering. It kills you. Hopes and trust, they just go away. 


Keep telling the space is not the problem. But then, we blame on it. As simple as that. 


Please, don't find excuses. Ridiculous. Be patient is all that matters. 
We make decisions for life. Not just for 'kesenangan' at the moment. 


Think about that.




huh. lega. bukan wanders back. cuma reduce storage otak. eliminate untuk benda2 akan datang untuk occupy otak. 
oh, it does not apply to relationship only. ;D

.angkasa.

familiar dengar nama dia since last year. but, tak pernah betul2 cari her songs.

one day terdengar kat radio lagu angkasa ni. got an instinct yang tu lagu diandra. and i was right!

since then, jatuh cinta sama lagu ni. 

be it you or anyone else, take care.

.you.

Hormat cara orang. 

Faham kita berbeza. 

Biar orang jadi orang. 

Dan kita jadi kita. 

(Because at the end of the day you will only have you.)

                                                   - wani ardy

sedar. please. 

.kangen.

i cut my hair short last 2 weeks. very2 short. ingat boleh hilang segala kusut. tak jugak hilang. *sigh
sesak dah nafas. baik macam mana pun memang tak boleh nak puaskan hati orang. like seriously, please wake up. bukan dalam dunia ni kau sorang saja yang nak hidup. mamat bangla or nepal yang kerja kat site KLIA tu pun ada yang ada degree or master kat negara asal diorang. last2 kena kerja kat sini without permit. orang asli kat taman negara pahang sana ada degree bussiness dari U singapore. rilek je pakai short tangkap ikan sungai. 
ok. dah tak tau apa aku merepek sorang2  ni. rasa nak quit kerja sekarang n balik kampung jual kuih. atau, cepat2 kamu datang n bawa aku lari. i dont mind merempat kat negeri orang, asal kamu ada. 




paman, your little naughty baby ni dah xtau nak buat macam mana. she needs your comforting inspiring words. please.

.fight.

if you really want it, fight for it.


tak banyak kita tahu kalau tak cuba. ada phase dalam hidup ni jatuh banyak kali baru boleh diri semula. 
a friend of mine. used to be or still be (i don't know if he ever thinks i'm his friend or not). i used to share everything with him (i'm not sure if he did the same). problems. hatred. siapa yang tak pernah rasa bukan? lagi bagus dapat depan2 dari rasa tersindir sendiri. sakit yang nampak lagi senang deal dari fikir bukan2. benda dah dapat, jangan senang2 lepas. tak pasti akan lekat balik atau tidak. senang cerita, tanya hati mahu atau tidak. akal sila bagi kerjasama. susah nak hidup. kalau senang, bukan hidup namanya.

You don't give up just because things are hard. 

You don't give up what you love just because you think you can't do it.

You don't give up who you love. Because you just don't. 

                                                         - yuna zarai 

if you really want it, fight for it.




i'm a fighter for a few years. sudahnya, tak larat. tanya hati, mahu? jawabnya, move.

.make the best out of it.

sing along broken heart. lalalalalala.


not. 
there's a lot to think about. 
not you. not you. not you.




udah udah la tu kawan. dah tak sudi bukan boleh lagi kembali. paksa-paksa pun tak dapat apa der. takde hasil. baik piker lain (piker? rempit jap). ingat, 

Dalam sebuah hadis yang sahih yang direkodkan oleh Bukhari dan Muslim, nabi berkata,

“Aku berwasiat kepada kamu supaya menjaga wanita dengan sebaik-baiknya kerana mereka dijadikan daripada tulang rusuk dan sebengkok-bengkok tulang rusuk adalah yang di bahagian teratas. Sekiranya kamu cuba meluruskannya, kamu akan mematahkannya dan sekiranya kamu membiarkannya akan terus bengkok selama-lamanya. Jesteru, berpesan-pesanlah tentang wanita (dengan kebaikan).” 

Jadi, kamu sudah faham aku?

takde maksud lain.  lurus. kalau jalan bengkok pun sakit sendiri nanti. bukan paranoid tentang itu. banyak lagi benda penting nak fikir. maaf. taknak sentuh dah lagi. tapi, siapa yang sibuk2 sangat? aku kenal baik buruknya dia. tapi, biar aku saja yang tahu. takkan aku mahu admit pula? aku sendiri belum lurus. masih mahu support. tak layak langsung. 

.THE QUESTIONS.

i'm asking myself,

what should i do if i knew something that is not good and that person should avoid it? 

should i tell or just keep quiet? 

what is the real definition for ready? 

how do we know we are ready for something?

because I REALLY DON'T KNOW.....




i do care.